read carefully before you leap
Anyone who has lived for any significant amount of time can recall a time when someone they knew—or even their self –forgot to look before they leaped; a notion we often describe as jumping to conclusions, or to use a more legalistic phrase, assuming facts not in evidence. An amusing urban legend describes what can happen when we jump to conclusions:
A young woman was driving to her son’s school to watch him do a ‘show and tell’. Her son was to speak about his pet gerbil which unfortunately he had left at home that morning, thus explaining the box containing the gerbil beside her. When she made a sudden stop, the box tipped over, the gerbil escaped and began to crawl up her pant leg. Panicked, the woman got out of the car and proceeded to jump up and down, shaking her leg in order to dislodge the gerbil. A passerby, thinking the woman was having a seizure wrapped his arms around her to calm her down. Another passerby seeing the struggle believed that an assault was occurring, rushed up and began to pummel the assailant. Then the police arrived…
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